1992ish 'find em fool em + forget them'

Please can anybody help me find this - these are the only lyrics I remember from the tune its 1992ish 'find em fool em + forget them'. It was on an old sasha mix tape I had years ago but lost. The only other part i remember is a woman sings something like ' when I was a young girl my daddy used to say' - at the start, but I can't be 100% on that. Thank you in advance to anyone who can help I will be eternally greatful.

S'Express - Find 'Em, Fool 'Em, Forget 'Em ?

Cheers

Ive just checked that out - thanks, it is the song but it's a different mix, Any ideas? Thanks.

Probably Garage(s)que mix from 1992 EP - it's a lot more uptempo than the '91 mixes.

Thank you very much chumley- much appreciated- I'll look up that mix now. Thanks again.